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A little note on body positivity... ⁣

I've struggled for the past 10 years to accept my body for the way it is, and this makes taking outfit pictures incredibly difficult for me. The day I took this picture I was taking outfit photos for the week, using my self timer... and when I went to look at the photos every time I prepared myself for them to look “ugly”. ⁣

I thought I would look too fat, too pale, to this or too that. And naturally when I first look at the photos I hated them all for one reason or another. ⁣

And then I took a step back. ⁣

If I was expecting a negative result, of course I’d have a negative reaction to absolutely every photo. ⁣

So I had to actively work on my mindset for the rest of the day, and while it’s a difficult exercise at first it’s really important. Appreciating yourself is necessary, putting yourself down is not. ⁣

So here’s one of the photos that was too this or that. ⁣

I love it. ⁣

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